I saw a really good friend of mine for the first time in a few years. We used to hang out back in the states. He's still in the states, but is now in Japan for vacation. We haven't met for maybe about 2-3 years, but as soon as we saw each other, we are like back in good old days, start talking about what we used to talk about each other. It's funny. I think we have changed a lot. We have met so many different people, had so many different experience, and done so many different things, but the relationship with a friend won't be changed.
I have a friend from elementary school. We used to do so many things together back in school days. So many bad things. We bought some beer and drank at a park (when we were in 6th grade), we exploded some fireworks in a school yard and in the next morning our teacher was really mad because she found the burned fireworks, and asked us to raise hand if anyone did that. Of course we didn't raise our hands. We just looked each other and say "what a sucker". Now, he's married, has 2 children, living in a nice house. We don't meet each other often too. We had not seen each other like 4-5 years when we were in high school, but eventually we start hanging out again. Even now, whenever I see him, I feel some sort of nostalgy, and we both talk about stupid things just like we did back in the day.
Friends are like that. We can go back in the day as soon as we see each other, even after few years of not meeting. Friends are really beautiful. But why can't we take boyfriend girlfriend relationship after it's over? If you see your girlfriend after breaking up, you are like "damn, why is she here? I don't wanna see her face." Then girlfriend goes like "taht poor motherfucker, I'm with a new boyfriend. I'm gonna make him jerouse!" People, you guys used to love each other! Why do you have to hate each other as soon as the relationship is over?
Boyfriend girlfriend relationship is like friendship back in your childhood. You hold hands each other, go everywhere together, and just being together makes you feel relieved. But why can't we share good memories after breaking up? That's probably because we have sex. You didn't fuck with your friend when you were elementary school, did you? That's right, fucking makes people crazy! It's all about fucking. How do you break up? Either your patner fucks somebody else, or you fuck somebody else. That's pretty much the only reason to break up. You might say "no, I haven't broke up because of cheating!" Well, maybe you haven't, but she might have. Or, you would say "I haven't cheated, but I couldn't help breaking up with her". Well, that's probably because of what you are watching while holding your dick! You are like "Nasty girl! My girlfriend hasn't done it to me! Shit, I don't need her!"
Don't get me wrong people, I want to get married some day :)